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Friday, April 29, 2016
The Stormy Waves of Emotion
My
dad, who is a long time meditator, told me recently that meditation is great
for helping us deal with the difficulties of life, but that meditation doesn’t
seem to work when we feel highly emotional. My experience tends to agree. When emotions
threaten to drown me, I don’t think to go sit on a cushion. The waves are too
powerful to swim through. But I think it is the fruition of the meditation
practice that we should be able to ride the waves when they come by observing
the emotions and not judging them too much. Later, when the storm has subsided,
a clearer sky starts to emerge and the calm abiding of meditation leads to
greater wisdom clarity.
Many
teachers convey some variation of the statement, "every moment has its
energy; either it will ride us or we can ride it." When our surfboard
snaps in
Labels: sangha retreat, shambhala, Sakyong
emotion,
fear,
gentleness,
pema chodron,
sakyong,
thic nhat hanh,
why meditate
Friday, April 22, 2016
When I Was A Werewolf
Sometimes my mind spins itself into a frenzy of negative
thinking. It usually happens at night, when my body feels tired and the outside
world is full of terrors. My mind transforms me into a werewolf. I go down this
terrifying path and eventually fall asleep in a heap of fearful trembling. The
next morning I awaken without fur or fangs. I wonder what the hell happened and
how I can escape my mind when it gets like this.
This happened to me last night. I was angry
about something
and then I went off to cool down. At some point I remembered to ask myself a
question about how I wanted to proceed. I asked myself something like: “am I pursuing kindness or stress?” It didn’t work. I was up until late
ruminating on the problems in my life I want to fix and one thought led to
another.
Labels: sangha retreat, shambhala, Sakyong
basic goodness,
fear,
pain
Saturday, June 1, 2013
Love and Heartbreak Feel the Same
Susan Piver |
Susan also said that the difference between love and heartbreak is that, "heartbreak is love unbound from an object." The object of that love could be someone who is gone now. It could be someone you have a crush on. It could even be the image in your mind of you with your dream job.
There is your mind and there is an object. In between there is a tender feeling like a heart breaking in two.
Labels: sangha retreat, shambhala, Sakyong
attachment,
compassion,
emotion,
happiness,
heartbreak,
Love,
Susan Piver
Saturday, March 23, 2013
Generating Merit
I'm in Thailand this week and I've noticed that a lot of my Buddhist co-workers talk a lot about generating merit. For example, they'll say things like, "I'm going to the wat (a Thai Buddhist temple) for a few weeks to generate merit."
The idea behind merit is that when you do good deeds - such as helping clean a meditation center, or walking your neighbor's dog - you are planting the seeds of karma that lead to better outcomes in the future. We call this "merit." According to the idea of karma, generating the right kind of merit will lead to a better rebirth, either in the next moment, or perhaps even in the next lifetime.
The idea behind merit is that when you do good deeds - such as helping clean a meditation center, or walking your neighbor's dog - you are planting the seeds of karma that lead to better outcomes in the future. We call this "merit." According to the idea of karma, generating the right kind of merit will lead to a better rebirth, either in the next moment, or perhaps even in the next lifetime.
Labels: sangha retreat, shambhala, Sakyong
Bodhisatva,
buddhism,
dedication of merit,
Hinayana,
karma,
merit,
Theravada
Sunday, March 3, 2013
Gentleness Toward Myself
I was standing on an ordinary street corner in DC when the change started. Lunch in hand, waiting for the cross-walk to change so I could go back to the office and eat, I was remembering something I said at a meeting, which now seemed embarrassing.
That's when I heard the voice: "You're such a fucking idiot."
"Wait, what?! Where the hell did that come from?" I thought. I was in shock. This voice was familiar, but I had never noticed it before.
That's when I heard the voice: "You're such a fucking idiot."
"Wait, what?! Where the hell did that come from?" I thought. I was in shock. This voice was familiar, but I had never noticed it before.
Labels: sangha retreat, shambhala, Sakyong
aggression,
ego,
gentleness,
why meditate
Sunday, February 3, 2013
Fleet Maull Talks about Socially Engaged Buddhism
Since this weekend I'm flying back after a fantastic month working in Nepal, I won't have time to post. In the meantime, check out these two videos by Fleet Maull, a senior Shambhala teacher who has a lot to say about aggression and compassion, after spending 14 years in prison. Acharya Maull will be at the DC Shambhala Center from March 8-10 for a workshop (details here). You can also just see him talk on the evening of the 8th.
Here is one vid on socially engaged Buddhism:
And another on service as path:
To register for Fleet Maull's talk or weekend, check this link: http://dc.shambhala.org/program-details/?id=121193
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